In the last 48 hours I have had separate conversations with four acquaintances, all white females (three at my workplace and one at my children’s school) about my hair. Let me preface this post by saying I have 5-year old locs and for the last few months have been getting more and more into the spirit of do-it-yourself (DIY) styling and experimentation (check out my Loc Style … [Read more...]
It Ends Now: 4 Ways to Curb Bad Behavior
Our daughter is now a preschooler and we are experiencing a “phase” where frequently she is willfully not listening and occasionally acting out. For example, she plays soccer after school and wanted to where a “pinny” (practice shirt) while they scrimmaged. Unfortunately, before she could get the pinny a 4th grade boy grabbed the last one. Instead of just keeping it moving … [Read more...]
Run Fast! These 3 Types of Toxic People Must be Immediately Removed from Your Life
Most people want to feel close, both physically and emotionally connected to one another. But ironically, there is nothing more complicated and difficult than our relationships with others. While this might sound cold, and while relationships are vital for a full and happy life, there are some relationships, the toxic ones that are not worth the investment of time and effort. … [Read more...]
The Importance of Feedback: Why feedback is essential to a thriving workplace?
We all want feedback. I want feedback from my bosses, those I supervise, and my peers so that I can improve. Peers and friends seek me out for my feedback so they can improve. And my children need feedback so they know how to behave. In short, we all need frequent feedback. Feedback from others is the fastest way to improve, it is how we learn and excel. Feedback … [Read more...]
Practicing Positivity: Happiness is a Choice (A Short Tale)
Okay so I feel like I must be living under a cloud. Within the last 24 hours I lost my wedding band, been treated like a secretary because of my gender, and now when I am headed to my first ever blogging conference (Blogalicious), it seems like the fates are against me. The Story: So I leave the house this morning still some what demoralized because I can't find my ring, … [Read more...]