We've all heard the statistic that 50% of all marriages end in the couple needing a divorce attorney and separating. However, recent statistics actually put that figure closer to 39%. Yay, doesn't that mean more people are living happily ever after? Unfortunately, the answer is no. Clearly, divorce does happen and, even worse, so does being widowed, but the real reason the … [Read more...]
From One Step-Mom To Another: How To Manage The Two Biggest Hurdles Of Blended Families
Source: RichLegg / Getty When I found out I was being given the amazing opportunity to write an “advice column” for MadameNoire, using my knowledge and experience as a clinically trained social worker with a focus on Child and Family dynamics, I immediately went to my tribe to ask them what topics they wanted me to address. The response was overwhelming. What I found … [Read more...]
A Dozen Great Ways to Keep Your Relationship Fresh
As I reflect on my relationship (which I have been in now for over 16 years, more than a 1/3 of my life), I am so grateful for the fact that it doesn't feel that long. In fact, the longer we're in it, the better it gets. And as I take a step back to reflect, there are definitely some intentional things that we did that have kept us both happy, fulfilled, and feeling like the … [Read more...]
5 Vacation Rules for Couples – Use Them If You Want to Have Fun Together
I have traveled alone for years...which I highly recommend you try to do at least once in life.) I've also traveled with friends, in groups, with family, and with my boyfriend (now husband) and each type of travel experience has its challenges and benefits. However, the one that is often the most delicate is traveling with your spouse or significant other. I have known a … [Read more...]
Fellas: 9 First Date Tips that Will Make Sure You Get a Second Date
You’re on the first date and it is going well. You know you are attracted to her and you want to impress her. But, it’s hard to gauge how she is feeling about you. And so you’re trying to figure out how to finesse things into a second date. Don’t worry…I’ve got you covered. Men I am about to drop some insider dating gems on you that you should immediately add to page one … [Read more...]