Do you know what love looks like? Not romantic love or self- love, but the kind of selfless love we show to one another as human beings. One of the greatest traditions in the African-American community is taking care of and looking out for one other. Kids growing up on the block would be looked after by family, friends, neighbors, and strangers alike, because … [Read more...]
How to Diffuse Conflict in a Relationship BEFORE it Goes Too Far
Although many wouldn’t admit it, I am willing to put out there that conflict is common in all relationships. Marriage like any relationship isn’t always easy to navigate and as a result conflicts/disagreements will arise. They say opposites attract; so when you take two individuals with different life experiences and backgrounds, pepper in colorful personalities, unique … [Read more...]
I Love You but I Don’t Always Like You
*This post was inspired by conversations with some good friends, all of whom have been married for over 15 years. I’ve said before how complicated love can be. Anyone who has ever been in love can understand what I mean when I say you can love someone even when you don’t always like them. I know I’m not the only one who has ever been in a romantic relationship where (once … [Read more...]
Run Fast! These 3 Types of Toxic People Must be Immediately Removed from Your Life
Most people want to feel close, both physically and emotionally connected to one another. But ironically, there is nothing more complicated and difficult than our relationships with others. While this might sound cold, and while relationships are vital for a full and happy life, there are some relationships, the toxic ones that are not worth the investment of time and effort. … [Read more...]
When the Kids are Away, the Parents can Play!!!
It's summertime, the weather is amazing, and there is so much to see and do. The good news is, you've just dropped the kids off at summer camp, or with relatives and you are FREE. Now what do you do? If you're like me your first reaction is to feel a combination of remorse, guilt, exhilaration, excitement, and temporary paralysis since you are overwhelmed with options. Here … [Read more...]